The Twins of Troubles !!

A strong relationship is always the best support in our lives. It reduces the strain & helps in improving ourselves both physically & mentally. However, if the relationship is not working then its a pain. The reason for this could be lack of communication or may be the difference in opinions or can be anything. People come together with different reasons and leave with a single view point. But then, knowing the factors could help them rebuild.

Some of those factors come from two simple words "Importance" & "Priority". These are the most influential and contradictory words. I feel relationship starts with giving importance and ends up with choosing priorities. They look very common and even the difference between them is very little but a single statement with these words make two different versions.

Importance is giving some weight/significance to the person's view/context.Priority is preference between two or more important things.
So, what is making people choose after they actually feel that's important ??
Is that the person they choose is wrong ?? or Is it going for a better reason ??

My point is importance comes with the value, how people give it back to you. And priority comes later, as who gives it better. Rather it is just expecting the better for our good. It is, we expect people to develop in counter with our choices. So it is the word Expectations that ruins it all.

Importance is always the same. Priority changes with circumstances. No one can reply to the question : What is your priority ??  This is not about who/what's more important when, this is about the support & realization. It is the way as in how people understand each other with the situations. If they are not ready with it. Expect the best arguments.


I may or may not not be right with this view for many but this is the one I wanted to take out of my head.

Have a great week !!

Cheers !!